Would that every one had always a happy birthday, and that the dwelling-places of those who sit at the desk, labour at the loom, work in the mine, or wield the hammer, the saw, or the file, rung with grateful joy and light-hearted merriment! Would that on such occasions there was every cause for congratulation and rejoicing, and none for regret and lamentation! "It is," says one, heart that never rejoices;" and when is there a fitter season to rejoice than on the return of that day when we came into this breathing world, to help each other gratefully to enjoy, patiently to endure, and to do His holy will who has crowned us with tender mercies and loving-kindnesses? (6 a poor Birthdays are mostly kept by the happy-hearted, for little are they recked of by those who have poverty and pain, sickness and sorrow, in their habitations. To the outcasts of the world, the return of the day of their birth must be rather an affliction than a source of joy. The ruined spendthrift, the prisoner, and the felon, cannot but say in their hearts, "Oh that it were with me as in days that are past!" Yes, the unhappy set but little store by their birthdays, and would rather blot them out than remember them. Poor Job thought lightly enough of his, when his sons and his daughters were destroyed, his camels, asses, sheep, and oxen taken away, and his body so changed by sickness that his very friends did not know him. What a mockery it would have been, in the depth of his destitution and darkness, to have paid him the compliment of wishing him "many happy returns!" What a keen and bitter susceptibility must he have had of his desolate condition, when he thus spoke of his birthday!" Let the day perish wherein I was born, and the night in which it was said, There is a man child conceived. Let that day be darkness; let not God regard it from above. As for that night, let darkness seize upon it; let it not be joined unto the days of the year. Lo, let that night be solitary, let no joyful voice come therein. Let them curse it that curse the day, who are ready to raise up their mourning." I know not whether Job's birthday came round while he was in this trouble, but if so, it must have been a day of darkness. It becomes us not, however, to despond in the hour of calamity; rather should we remember that it is as light a thing with God to lift up as to pull down; for of this same Job it is said that the Lord blessed his latter end more than his beginning. I must now bring my remarks to a close. We all like to be esteemed by those we respect, and none of us have any objection to be remembered on our birthdays by those who have a niche in our hearts; and whether the symbol of their affection or friendship assume the shape of a page of prose, a verse of poetry, an etching, a book-marker, a simple flower, or any other form, it is invested with the value that kindness always confers. Reader, what is the date of your birth? Have you ever made inquiry whether any good man came into the world or went out of it on that day, that you might have some one to imitate? or whether any bad man was born or died on that day, that you might shun his evil deeds? Have you given yourself the trouble to ascertain whether any event has ever occurred on that day calculated to awaken your wonder, increase your piety, or call forth your thankfulness? What a reproach to any one it must be to be born on the same date as Beveridge, Baxter, Watts, or Wesley, and yet be ungodly! or on the birthday of a Howard, a Wilberforce, or a Fry, and be hard-hearted and cruel! There are many ways of turning a birthday to account; and, if no better method should occur to you, adopt at once the following advice of Old Humphrey, putting it in practice on your very next birthday. Enjoy the present, think on the past, and prepare for the future. Call to mind your mercies, encourage thankfulness of heart, forgive such as have offended you, and try to make some aching heart happy. Hardly can I express a better wish for you than that which a kind correspondent has expressed for me: "Many happy returns of the day of thy birth, And may God, in his mercy, prepare thee on earth OLD HUMPHREY TO HIS HONOURED ANCIENT, ON HER NINETIETH BIRTHDAY. January 16, 1851. HAIL! honoured Ancient! Once again With me, the changing scenes that fly Not that I walk in pathways fair, Amid the flitting seasons past, The summer breeze, and autumn blast, Has God illumed with light your ways, And given you tranquil nights and days? His hand has held me hitherto : How is it, honoured friend, with you? Say, does the Lord of life and love Will He, whose love has bless'd your brow This prayer I freely would impart, Thus be it, honoured friend, with you! 19 |